5 Steps To A Clitoral Orgasm

About 75% of women can't orgasm from penetrative sex. Does that mean we just shouldn't have orgasms then? Absolutely not. It just means that we may need to give our clit a little more attention (or a lot more attention).

You may be thinking if you've never had an orgasm: where on earth do I start?! Well, I'm here to give you 5 steps which should do the trick.

Step 1: Relax your mind and body

- Possibly draw a bath or lay on your bed and get comfortable with your body

Step 2: Locate and lube up your toy of choice

- Try a bullet vibrator or an electric toothbrush (with water) - anything that vibrates will do

Step 3: Let your imagination run wild

- Think about what turns you on, whatever it is don't feel ashamed; remember that no one can see your thoughts so let them be as raunchy as you like

- If you're struggling to get your imaginative juices flowing, maybe engage in some visual stimuli

- Once you've found something that's turning you on, really focus on it!

Step 4: Place the toy wherever it feels good and keep it there until you want to move it

Step 5: Let the sensation slowly build up, you’ll know when it’s about it happen…

There's a taboo about women self-pleasuring but there shouldn't be. We have a clitoris for a reason: for pleasure, so why not indulge in the incredible sensations it can bring.