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One Night Stands - A Guy's Perspective
So, something that I am aware of is that all of the articles up until now have been from my perspective. To switch it up a little and...
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On Being 'The Smart One' or 'The Sexy One'
Feminism is about choice, about having the right to make your own decisions. That said, choosing to be either smart or sexy is not...
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"I'm not homophobic; I have gay friends"
You may be thinking that by having gay friends, you must be entirely accepting - perhaps even an avid supporter - of the LGBTQ+...
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The Ultimate Sex Playlist
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5kW9z3z2RS95bywZqde64o?si=p6ai5XMZTwC0wW_VTkQVGQ This one talks for itself. Click the link, dim the...
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Tips For Sexual Wellbeing
We spend so much time thinking about, worrying over, or wanting sex. It's such an important aspect - the provider - of life. With that in...
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What Kind Of Lover Are You: Based On The Myers-Briggs Personality Type?
What is your speciality, your USP, your 'thing'? What can you bring to a relationship that others can't? How can you use this dazzling...
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Instascam
Instagram: it's a great place for the strong-minded and food bloggers. Not so much for young, impressionable girls. Having recently...
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And What Were You Wearing?
A worrying amount of sexual assault victims have been asked this question, which is completely and utterly wrong. There is no debate to...
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I Kissed A Girl And I Loved It
So you know how it's considered 'normal' for girls to link arms and drunkenly kiss? Well, this societal norm has been both great and...
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Make Her Want You
Lots of girls love it when a guy... - Has confidence - Walk with confidence and be self-assured - P.S. confidence includes having the...
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Make Him CRAVE You
So let me start by saying that your man should always make you feel wanted. Regardless of how sharp his jawline is, if he's not making...
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5 Steps To A Clitoral Orgasm
About 75% of women can't orgasm from penetrative sex. Does that mean we just shouldn't have orgasms then? Absolutely not. It just means...
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Cunn[ing]lingus
Cunnilingus, it's usually a pleasurable experience for all involved; lots of men say they really enjoy pleasuring their girl. But, the...
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Blow Him Away
Blow jobs. Do you feel like you're wanting to step up your head game? Well, you're in the right place to learn exactly how to do so.......
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HAND The JOB Over
Hand jobs: I know a lot of people have a love-hate relationship with them. But, I know that I only started to love them when I learnt how...
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Having Sex For The First Time? I Got You.
Having sex for the first time is scary, there's no denying that. But, being aware of certain things can make it a little less so. This is...
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The Easy Way Or The Hard Way
Are you thinking about getting rough in the bedroom? Keep reading for my ultimate guide to starting out with rough sex or BDSM. The first...
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Rulers Aren't Just For Straight Lines
Are you thinking about giving BDSM a go? Are you holding out on getting toys but don't want to miss out on the pleasure all that pain can...
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The Cherry On Top
The stigma surrounding sex toys is restricting us all from reaching optimal pleasure; whether that be in a receiving or giving sense. But...
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I Dare You To Tell Me The Truth
Here you have some sexual truth questions to ask your lover to ignite that spark... What is your biggest turn on? What is the kinkiest...
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Porn Addition
Ever wondered why the things you watch are getting more and more extreme? Watching porn is a normal thing to do, there is nothing...
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LUBE.
The amount of times I've used lube and thought: ooo that stings, but continued to use it is NOT good. That said, I never thought to...
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Smear Test - Don't Stress
It is something my friends and I discuss and the common feeling towards smear tests is PANIC!! But really, that fear is just the fear of...
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My Trip To [Nip]al
Are my nipples normal?! A few years ago, my nipples were the main thing I was super self-conscious about and it really bothered me...
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