Cunn[ing]lingus

Cunnilingus, it's usually a pleasurable experience for all involved; lots of men say they really enjoy pleasuring their girl. But, the real question is: do they know how to do it well? Same for all my lady loving ladies out there, do you get the response you're after when going down on a girl?

The first time I went down on a girl, I had absolutely no idea what to do; honestly, I felt sorry for her and have always wanted to apologise for my dire performance. Thankfully, after a little practice and research, I have grasped the art of pleasuring women, and boy do I feel sexy when I do.

Back in the bad old times, the upcoming list of top tips would have been a life saver. Hopefully, it'll help some of you pleasure your lady...

- Work your way down very slowly

- There's no rush, so tease her - try running your fingers up her inner thighs and playing with or kissing over her underwear

- Make her crave your hot wet tongue; don't give it to her straight away

- Move with confidence and be present

- She'll know if you're simply doing it to get her wet for sex rather than because you love selflessly pleasuring her and being that close to her other lips

- Compliment her

- Lots of women feel self-conscious or exposed when someone is going down on them so make sure to tell her that her body looks amazing and that you can't wait to taste her

- Don't forget about the rest of her body

- Use your hands to stroke her legs, massage her boobs, or to hold her hips down to keep her close to your lips

- Gage what she likes by watching her response

- This is another reason to build her up; it's easier for her to ask for more than less

- Feel free to involve sex toys

- This can really intensify her experience so make sure to ask if she'd like to use one as it may be hard for her to ask you

- Tongue movements...

- Use your tongue lightly and gently

- Start with broader, sweeping motions

- Use circular or up and down motions

- Write the alphabet with your tongue

- Keep a rhythm going to make her orgasm, but don't expect her to have one

- Focus on the clit

- Suck on it gently - make sure to gage her expressions to see if she likes this one

- Blow on her vagina after intense tongue movements to cool it down and let her relax

- Breath slowly for warm air

- Breath quickly for cool, refreshing air

- Temperature play

- Put a piece of ice between your lips and run it gently over her vagina

- Have a sip of hot tea then run your tongue up her vagina

When it's all over, why not kiss her and show her how good she tastes?