HAND The JOB Over

Hand jobs: I know a lot of people have a love-hate relationship with them. But, I know that I only started to love them when I learnt how to do them well. So, to help you learn to love them too, I've comprised a few of my top tips you can put to use next time the mood takes you.

First and foremost, don't be afraid. Most guys will be more than happy with you touching their penis; it's unlikely that it won't be pleasuring them. So be confident and go for it!

- If you are unsure, why not ask him to show you exactly what he likes... pay attention to how tight his grip is, the hand movements he uses and his pace. Then you can implement these next time you pleasure him.

- Use some form of lubricant

- AVOID DRY HAD JOBS AT ALL COSTS, especially if he is circumcised

- Silicone lubes are great for hand jobs as they last a long time

- Coconut oil is also great but remember that it's not condom compatible

- Spit is always great and it's super sexy

- Put your spit or lube in one hand; apply it from the base to the tip with one hand, then follow with the other hand

- Eye contact

- This makes it intimate, intense and super sexy

- Read the signals

- Pay attention to changes in his breathing patterns, facial expressions and body language

- Don't treat it like foreplay, treat it like the main sexual act

- Add pressure

- Ask him how tight he likes your hand and adjust accordingly

- Pay attention to the sensitive spots

- Particularly the frenulum and perineum

- Stroke it, move your thumb side to side on it or use both thumbs going up and down

- Cup and play with his balls

- Get experimental, switch it up

- Use various techniques to keep him guessing

- Here are some things you may like to try...

- Lemon Squeezer - keep your finger tips together, face your hand downwards, and let your hand fall and spread over the tip before twisting (feel free to do this as a solo act, or while your other hand is going up and down his shaft or cupping his balls)

- The Escalator - stroke from tip to bass with your right hand then do the exact same with your left hand. Keep going with the continuous movement (make sure to use a lot of spit or lube) but every 5-10 strokes, counter it with an upward action

- The 'O' - form an 'O' with your index finger and thumb and use that rather than your whole hand for a little variety

- Use both hands - either twist them in separate motions (with lots of lube) or interlock your fingers and move them up and down the shaft together

- When he's near to finishing, keep a rhythm

- Do it sneakily

- Hand jobs are an fun one to do under a blanket, in a car etc, so get creative!

Why not give some of these tricks a go and see if your man starts looking at you a little differently...